Many great novels end with a happy come together. The girl next door gets the rugged misunderstood boy after their many tribulations. The dysfunctional family on the corner of Parley Avenue suddenly seems not so dysfunctional with a climactic heartwarming speech to profess a grander love. So, why is that happy ending so unknowingly satisfying to the audience? Is it a common place script? Is it because we’re socialized into expecting that happiness is at the end of all entertainment? A more accurate possibility is that it’s human nature to feel that happiness is a true piece of life. Or chocolate cake, humorously.
It’s understanding where that happiness comes from that’s important. People are hardwired into the knowingness of interrelationships; we’re just not quite sure what that means. In this context it means that we can’t have one without the other. We all, on some scale, relate to hardship and we hopefully relate to overcoming those hardships. This in a sense creates a safe, fuller community for all of us. It allows us the opportunity to thrive in tandem with one another.
Everyone sees those videos of people doing deeds out of the kindness of their hearts. I always think of that video of the grandma that brings two cans of Coca-Cola out to the two garbage men every day. There is no self-interest for her to do that. They’d still get her garbage whether she was there or not. In that moment they were so fully engaged in her thoughtfulness for strangers that I could feel it just by looking at my phone screen across the country. Without any of us knowing the full extent to any of our lives and them not even knowing I exist, we all shared in a growing sense of love and peacefulness for each other. In a way, that’s this sense of happiness in life without knowing why. That’s this sense of interrelationship.
Every day, this can be even more powerful. We can start becoming better people than we were the day before and that’s a truly magical thing. We aren’t always gifted the opportunity to become someone better, but here it suddenly is staring you in the face. The value of purpose doesn’t have to be handing over money to cure cancer. Even though that is important and you’re more than welcome to. It can be in the smallest things like helping someone that lost everything in a natural disaster or helping a single mom fund her daughter’s college fee after she had to use the money to support her family.
The idea of supporting someone you don’t know can be scary and with limitation, but if there’s even a small chance that you can get that house rebuilt or that girl to college it should be an easy choice. We all want that happy ending, right? Any good cause you choose to invest your time, money, or thought into is your chance to give someone that happy ending. In tandem, also giving you the ultimate happiness. Or chocolate cake, humorously.
See how you can make a difference by contributing to a good cause today: aGoodCause.com.
Author: Shylee Wheeler